When I was 13 I spilled a whole bottle of nail polish remover in my lap and somehow it got into my vagina.

I don't remember the details, but I remember running into the bathroom and jumping into the tub to try to stop the burning with cold water. It didn't really help. To top it off, I was super embarrassed by how dumb it was to injure my most sensitive parts like that.

...These things happen. 🤷‍♀️

Knowing you were wrong is one of the first steps towards becoming a better person. It's a hard step.

You've acknowledged your mistake and should try to learn from that and work towards being more understanding of other people's situations. That's how we grow into better people. From your family's comment, it seems like you may not have truly known that your reaction wasn't appropriate, but now you do. It's not too late for improvement. 🙂

I did the same thing when I was 13 but my tampon fell out in the pool.

Unless that relationship is abusive.

Then it's best to have as much evidence as possible. Trust me.