Mysterious_Bee8811
Mysterious_Bee8811 t1_jadd4ge wrote
I'm confused. .
>I’ve noticed that if I [f30] say anything negative about myself to my long term partner [m30] when I’m in a rough place, he actually goes in his head like “oh she’s right, she IS blah blah”.
So why are you lying to him about your insecurities? Why are you trying to get him to say "no no, you're not.."?
> If I say something about myself, he won’t say “oh that’s not true”,
Why would he belittle your feelings or reject them? And why would you want that?
>. This makes me feel that I can’t share worries or vulnerabilities with him.
How are you phrasing your worries or vulnerabilities?
>This does trigger my abandonment issues, and I don’t know what to do
You have issues. Seek therapy.
> I’m being ignored
How is he ignoring you? What triggered him to start ignoring you?
>And it’s triggering me.
And what happens when you're "triggered"?
Mysterious_Bee8811 t1_ja6p316 wrote
Reply to comment by idkiwby in I (20FTM) can’t get over my boyfriends (20M) sexual past and I am desperately in need of advice (retrospective jealousy). by [deleted]
I suggest learning how to control your emotions. Learn to let the past be the past. This comes from experience, from self reflection, and from growth.
Honestly, I suggest getting outside of your comfort zone. Visit/ move to another country as a long term resident. Do new experiences, like skydiving, or learn new skills like Scuba diving. Fail. Get up. Dust yourself off. Do it again.
Mysterious_Bee8811 t1_j8gz88m wrote
This is the headline when I click on the link:
"Oil edges higher as market weighs Russian supply cuts amid demand fears"
So is oil falling or raising? The answer is yes!
Mysterious_Bee8811 t1_iyc8aul wrote
Reply to Help me Women by Intrepid_Win_2064
16 and you want to give her a ring? You're sure she likes jewelry, right? I know in America girls who aren't into jewelry may find a ring to be a big turn off.
I'd recommend getting something that's related to her interests:
- A keychain with something she's interested in (favorite city, or animal, or something)
- Simple flowers
- Something homemade
I don't know, you know her much better than we do. What's the budget? And why did you chose to buy her a ring anyway?
Mysterious_Bee8811 t1_jeeuxdp wrote
Reply to My (18F) Bf (19M) friends (18F 19M) are getting in between our relationship. How to i move forward? by Gold_Style_1301
This is a toxic relationship for both you and your boyfriend.
>My boyfriend keeps constantly bringing up going on breaks (I don’t believe in them) or breaking up
He's trying to break up with you, without seeming to be the bad guy. It's best if you break up with him. Playing mind games is toxic, and not something you need.