MrFavorable

MrFavorable t1_jdikw09 wrote

> So we started having some arguments and fights and that became really common In 2021, we had a big fight and we went like 4 months without talking or seeing each other. I reached out and said I wanted to see her after all this time So I go to her house and we were talking, then she told me she had lost her virginity to her ex boyfriend at a party and I felt like I was cheated on.

Doesn’t talk for four months, expects to have something with this girl still. Finds out she had sex, and YOU felt like you got cheated on? Dear lord someone help this kid.

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MrFavorable t1_j63n9n2 wrote

Dear lord this is absolutely awful. I want to tell you that you in no way fucked up. It is your parents that are fucking up and failing you. You said that you’re 15 and I want you to realize that 18 will get here much quicker than you think it will. I think you should start planning how you’re going to leave your parents behind and I believe you should consider going low contact or no contact once you leave for college, move out to be on your own. I don’t know if you have a support group such as grandparents or a friend whose family you consider like a second family. But i believe you should reach out to someone if you do have that support. Your parents are extremely toxic towards you and the fact they dump all of this money on your sister but cannot spend $20 on you for hair clips is outrageous. Stay strong u/Birthdaycake32 you can make it!

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MrFavorable t1_j4r9hjq wrote

Before I received my CPAP I used to thrash around a lot and just randomly raise my arms in the air and let them drop. My wife has woke me up before in the past asking why I did that. Me waking up not knowing what was going on asked her to explain and she did. I’ve always felt bad. Since my CPAP I don’t move in my sleep now.

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