Your existence is political when you're a straight white male christian too! Doesn't it seem like vilifying people based on sex, race, orientation or religion is wrong, period?

Same, it's contextual for me. Caramel pronounced with both a's if its a candy or something fancy, just plain old "carmel" if its a flavoring in something else. Scawlops if its by itself or still fresh in the shell, Scahlops if its stuffed, battered or in something else. Dunno why for either!