I asked him a few weeks ago what he actually liked about me. From what I remember, his answer was based around the things I do for him. Nothing about me as a person. He was also surprised that I even asked him that to begin with.

As I say, sometimes I think people only come in to our lives for us to learn something, in one way or another.

I just know he may see it that way, as his ex used to withhold affection and sex apparently. I’m not getting in to that specifically though, that’s a whole ass problem in itself - and one I have zero facts for.

But yeah it shocked me that he was seemingly genuinely frustrated at me saying no.

I forget how shitty people can be. 26 years old and too naive for my own good I think.

He often stays for a few nights at a time and sometimes talks about “making it work” in regards to him possibly having to move away - but despite that I’m inclined to agree. He never wants to go out and do anything. Whether that’s walking the dog together, grabbing lunch in town, or anything of the sort.