MonsterByDay

MonsterByDay t1_iuhphu6 wrote

I never said there are "rules" per say, but there's definitely a social convention that it's for kids. The "last year of trick-or-treating" is even a pretty common trope in coming of age halloween stories.

If you - as an adult - want to walk around and beg your neighbors for candy, go nuts. Most of them will probably give you some candy. A lot of them would probably try to find you something even if it wasn't halloween. People are nice like that.

Just don't pretend it's normal, socially acceptable behavior.

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MonsterByDay t1_iuhlg2u wrote

I'm not "hurt", but it's definitely off putting when adults force themselves into activities that are clearly meant for children. Pretending it's not isn't going to do anyone any favors.

Trick-or-treating, easter egg hunts, and "sit in santa's lap" are all pretty clearly designed for specifically for kids.

There's a million parties tonight specifically planned for adults. Go to one of those.

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MonsterByDay t1_iuhgojp wrote

People here are being too nice.

Honestly, once you hit 13, begging for candy from strangers is a bit off putting. Buy your own candy if you want candy. I buy candy for the little kids - because it’s fun seeing all the neighborhood kids dressed up s whatever they’re in to - not so a 20-something can try to recapture their youth.

Go to a Halloween party, or set up a trunk at a trunk-or-treat. There’s lots of adult activities tonight. Leave the kid stuff to the kids.

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MonsterByDay t1_iu3wygw wrote

I wear darn tough ankle socks, and they last a predictably long time.

But they’re socks, so they will wear out eventually.

Since I want DT to stay in business, to keep making high quality socks, and to continue to warranty against actual defects, when they wear out I buy new ones.

But I’m a big dude, and I get 5ish years out of them.

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MonsterByDay t1_irxtayv wrote

I have no advice, but I can offer sympathy.

I dealt with Lyme last spring and it was awful. Fortunately we caught it early enough that they were able to nuke it with antibiotics and it hadn’t been back since, but it sucked.

Have you tried calling your insurance company? They might have in network suggestions on the telehealth front.

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