MonsterByDay
MonsterByDay t1_iui56l9 wrote
Reply to comment by sheeponabowl in Taking my (23f) SO Trick or Treating. Would anyone care? by MysticalTeamMember
Well, that's reddit for ya..
Anecdotally, most of the other adults I know who spend their money to decorate their houses and buy candy for the neighborhood kids, get mildly annoyed by other adults adults horning in on the festivities and begging for candy.
MonsterByDay t1_iui4n07 wrote
Reply to comment by Lieutenant_Joe in Taking my (23f) SO Trick or Treating. Would anyone care? by MysticalTeamMember
1: Adults waiting in line to sit in Santa's lap at the mall
2: Adults participating in easter egg hunts
3: Adults loitering around playgrounds without kids
Pretty much any situation where adults are participating in activities designed for children. Don't try to turn it into something it's not.
MonsterByDay t1_iui3p60 wrote
Reply to comment by Lieutenant_Joe in Taking my (23f) SO Trick or Treating. Would anyone care? by MysticalTeamMember
You know you're not required to drink at parties right? And, if you go with friends, you're not surrounded by strangers.
Kind of like... every other night of the year.
MonsterByDay t1_iuhpneb wrote
Reply to comment by sheeponabowl in Taking my (23f) SO Trick or Treating. Would anyone care? by MysticalTeamMember
Never said "can't". Only meant to imply "shouldn't".
MonsterByDay t1_iuhphu6 wrote
Reply to comment by sheeponabowl in Taking my (23f) SO Trick or Treating. Would anyone care? by MysticalTeamMember
I never said there are "rules" per say, but there's definitely a social convention that it's for kids. The "last year of trick-or-treating" is even a pretty common trope in coming of age halloween stories.
If you - as an adult - want to walk around and beg your neighbors for candy, go nuts. Most of them will probably give you some candy. A lot of them would probably try to find you something even if it wasn't halloween. People are nice like that.
Just don't pretend it's normal, socially acceptable behavior.
MonsterByDay t1_iuhlg2u wrote
Reply to comment by fuhnetically in Taking my (23f) SO Trick or Treating. Would anyone care? by MysticalTeamMember
I'm not "hurt", but it's definitely off putting when adults force themselves into activities that are clearly meant for children. Pretending it's not isn't going to do anyone any favors.
Trick-or-treating, easter egg hunts, and "sit in santa's lap" are all pretty clearly designed for specifically for kids.
There's a million parties tonight specifically planned for adults. Go to one of those.
MonsterByDay t1_iuhgojp wrote
People here are being too nice.
Honestly, once you hit 13, begging for candy from strangers is a bit off putting. Buy your own candy if you want candy. I buy candy for the little kids - because it’s fun seeing all the neighborhood kids dressed up s whatever they’re in to - not so a 20-something can try to recapture their youth.
Go to a Halloween party, or set up a trunk at a trunk-or-treat. There’s lots of adult activities tonight. Leave the kid stuff to the kids.
MonsterByDay t1_iufxao4 wrote
Reply to comment by blutigetranen in I just saw someone at Hanny’s buy $200 of Halloween candy and drive off in a $350K McLaren 720s by Guygan
Lol, I did not. Just elevated blood sugar and regret.
MonsterByDay t1_iufgbf5 wrote
Reply to I just saw someone at Hanny’s buy $200 of Halloween candy and drive off in a $350K McLaren 720s by Guygan
I just stole $2 worth of Halloween candy from my kids’ baskets, and ran off in a $8 pair of slippers.
MonsterByDay t1_iu3wygw wrote
I wear darn tough ankle socks, and they last a predictably long time.
But they’re socks, so they will wear out eventually.
Since I want DT to stay in business, to keep making high quality socks, and to continue to warranty against actual defects, when they wear out I buy new ones.
But I’m a big dude, and I get 5ish years out of them.
MonsterByDay t1_itvxw6q wrote
Reply to comment by SwvellyBents in Admit it Maine is Alaska's Mini Me by Pappa_Crim
lol. no worries. I generally try to forget that he ever existed as well..
MonsterByDay t1_itvjf57 wrote
Reply to comment by SwvellyBents in Admit it Maine is Alaska's Mini Me by Pappa_Crim
Um... LePage?
MonsterByDay t1_itrfj6b wrote
Reply to UMaine Presque Isle by thesleazye
I loved it up there. It’s dirty a small town vibe, but it was a Pet great place to sirve my formative years.
MonsterByDay t1_itra3vc wrote
I've always heard herons, egrets, and all birds of the same general aesthetic referred to as "shit pokes".
I always assumed it was because they walk around in the mud/water and poke shit.
MonsterByDay t1_itajp2b wrote
Reply to Is there any reason Maine couldn't do this? Oregon's entire coast was declared open to public access in the 1960s. by ppitm
I’d be all for more public beaches.
But, the flip side, when I rent a place in the beach it’s nice to know I’m not going to have to fight people to sit out in front of it.
Privacy is part of the appeal of Maine’s beachfront tourism.
MonsterByDay t1_irxtayv wrote
Reply to Need Help with Lyme Disease by cathar_here
I have no advice, but I can offer sympathy.
I dealt with Lyme last spring and it was awful. Fortunately we caught it early enough that they were able to nuke it with antibiotics and it hadn’t been back since, but it sucked.
Have you tried calling your insurance company? They might have in network suggestions on the telehealth front.
MonsterByDay t1_iqsg74y wrote
Oh man. I’d forgotten about those. Best part of going shopping with my mom back when it was still “shop ‘n save”
MonsterByDay t1_iqn47gs wrote
If you like the looks, they’re okay light duty boots. They’ve never been with it to me.
MonsterByDay t1_iui5br7 wrote
Reply to comment by Lieutenant_Joe in Taking my (23f) SO Trick or Treating. Would anyone care? by MysticalTeamMember
lol, okay..