Merzbenzmike
Merzbenzmike t1_j1os3mz wrote
Reply to Checking in - how was your day? by MaynardWaltrip
I kept Christmas as drama free as possible. My alcoholic girlfriend is killing my family relationships. I put her above others. When they (my family) are gone, all I will have is an alcoholic girlfriend who continues to use and avoid treatment. Why do I do this to myself? And I do do this to myself.
Yes, I attend Al-Anon. ππ
Merzbenzmike t1_j1pqfwy wrote
Reply to comment by SystemOfADowneyJr in Checking in - how was your day? by MaynardWaltrip
Excellent question. I believe itβs called a codependency, as I am dependent on the person who is dependent on the alcohol.