I hear the words I’m reading in my head, but I actually read too fast and find I don’t retain what I read sometimes.

So I have to purposely make myself read slower. And if I don’t understand what I read, I read it very slowly, out loud, pausing to make sure I’m getting it.

I’m curious tho. Have you tried to purposely read faster? What happens? Do you retain the info?

I’m still not understanding. You park your car on the street. This is not a private parking lot or something is it?

Is it correct to say that your car is NOT blocking their driveway, but is parked between two driveways on the street, so in front of a home? Are you parking in front of your neighbors house and that’s why they are mad? They do not own the street parking in front of their home. Can you not park in front of your own home?

I cannot imagine that a traffic officer would give you a ticket, even if they have been called by the neighbor, if you are not parked illegally. How do you even call a traffic officer?

I’m not really sure what to tell you, maybe take a picture of your car every time you park and then if you get a ticket take another pic with the ticket still on your car to prove the car was parked legally?

Or see if you have a case for harassment on the neighbor if they keep calling the traffic police on you?

Or call the traffic police yourself and ask them why they keep coming when they know you are parking legally.

This is a really nice picture. You’re very talented.

Eatontown has the most retched people on the planet.

I put all the docs I needed on the counter, spread out so she could see every one of them.

That stupid miserable human wouldn’t pick my document off the counter. I had to pick them up and hand them to her one at a time.

Haven’t been back since. I’ll go to Hazlet. Much more civilized there.

But the inspection people are very nice. Especially the woman who works there.

One more thought, if you have friends that will vouch for you, maybe you can ask them to co sign on a lease?

That might solve the credit issue. Then when the lease comes due and you fix the credit issue you can ask the landlord if they will do another credit check to see if you’d be good on your own.

Sorry just throwing ideas out there.

You have an income that would afford you a pretty good life. Air bnb’s are gonna cut into that I would think pretty quickly.

Instead of trying to get an apt that would have a credit check, maybe try to find a roommate situation.

After that, you need to build more credit. CC might not be viable but a monthly subscription to a magazine would help. ( I did that when I first started out)

And don’t stop with the credit companies. Fight until you get an answer from them of what documentation you need to accept the name change. And then get it to them. Maybe check with a lawyer if what they are doing is even legal, and send your docs with a letter from the lawyer.