Thanks for the advice. I think I will still try and have a sit down with them and my brother to TRY and plan out a budget, I’m sure they will want no part of it, but worst they can do is get mad

Honestly I think this is what it boils down to. I am a smart girl and have an even smarter brother. I feel like if there was something that would help, we would of come up with it. I was just hoping someone had a magic solution

Don’t they have to be like 65 to get that? I honestly don’t think they will make it that long. Like they won’t be able to work that long. They are both unhealthy. My dad is an alcoholic and refuses to go to the doctor and my mom has diabetes and doesn’t treat it 😭