Thank you!
I'll relay this idea.. Maybe it's enough.

But what do I do in the mean time?

I always try to introduce her and steer the convo her way. She told me after she doesn't appreciate that because she isn't a people's person..

When I thought it was safe to do so, I did ask if she wants to consider the counseling.. She said she doesn't know, but I'll talk to her, maybe go with her.

I'll try to spend more time with her on campus 1 on 1.

But it wasn't like this last year? Like we've gone out to pubs and events and things have been fine.

And her personal live hasn't taken a complete toll.. Should I focus on giving her space? Should we take a break so she could work on herself? Is it possible to stay together while she works on herself?

I feel held captive in the sense that saying anything that sounds like "leaving" would make everything worse.