How do you avoid telling yourself that nobody wants you when nobody does?

6 years ago I thought I'd at least have dated once, and I was even pretty optimistic about it back then.

I feel absolutely worthless right now. Wish I had someone or some way to help me feel a little more like I fit in here

I wish this were true, but every time I've been trusting/ vulnerable, I've been ignored, abandoned or disappointed.

Strong disagree. Single men are in abundance, and there is so little demand for us. It feels like most women are either already taken, already being pursued by (sometimes several) others, don't want commitment, or rate you too low for them if they do want commitment. Single women seriously and realistically looking to date do not remain single for extended periods.

I wish the same could be said for men. I see so many young men like myself lamenting over the same thing, and there is nothing to console them.

And if you do get a chance, factor in that you have to like them too, and be close enough, and have lives that can fit at some point...

...I'm getting sick of the reality of this hopeless game.

Concerning dating maybe this is true for women, but definitely not for men.