JuiceJones_34
JuiceJones_34 t1_j1zflf8 wrote
Reply to comment by Brightwing9 in Kids realize what you did for them and appreciate it once they have kids of their own. Spouses or SOs don’t realize or appreciate it until you’re gone. by Yourfaceis-23
Although very truthful, you don’t really understand the impact until it’s gone. The absence of something, whether good or bad is the true telling of its impact.
JuiceJones_34 t1_j1zg280 wrote
Reply to Kids realize what you did for them and appreciate it once they have kids of their own. Spouses or SOs don’t realize or appreciate it until you’re gone. by Yourfaceis-23
I had an amazing childhood. Loved every bit of it. My parents divorced in junior high and although I still had loads of love and support, having divorced parents is very impactful.
Now having my own kid I understand how hard it is and how much it can take it’s toll on a marriage like my parents.
My wife and I realize this and still make time day in day out for us and our own interests and still prioritize each other after the kid and not just 100% of our son.
Although watching my parents divorce was the hardest thing for me as a teenager, it’s also become the single best thing for me in my adult life from a learning standpoint.