There was just a thread recently in this sub where people were telling the poster that accidents happen and some people said they were in long-term relationships with people where poop happened during their first sexual-encounter. Things happen, and sometimes it can be laughed-off.
However your story has one thing not in common with those: The guy didn't say anything about it until long after you'd discovered it yourself. That's a red-flag. Trust your gut and don't see him again.
JudgeJudyApproved t1_j70t2ok wrote
Reply to TIFU by smelling a stain by disgurstingshiit
There was just a thread recently in this sub where people were telling the poster that accidents happen and some people said they were in long-term relationships with people where poop happened during their first sexual-encounter. Things happen, and sometimes it can be laughed-off.
However your story has one thing not in common with those: The guy didn't say anything about it until long after you'd discovered it yourself. That's a red-flag. Trust your gut and don't see him again.