Jazzlike_Leader8755
Jazzlike_Leader8755 t1_ja3sn8a wrote
Reply to comment by itslexibicth in [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
And you know what’s great? It’s only 48 days. That’s a month and a half. Piece of cake.
Jazzlike_Leader8755 t1_ja3se5f wrote
Reply to [discussion] how to keep doing healthy habits after having medical issues? by Marvellover13
Listen to your body. I don’t know enough about your medical issue but your doctor is the best person to ask.
Forget the push-ups though. Try low impact like swimming, yoga, walking.
Jazzlike_Leader8755 t1_ja3s6cu wrote
Reply to [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
OP you got this.
Fix your meds and do your shifts. That’s all you gotta do.
If you are struggling with getting to appointments look up the posts here on tricks and tips to get up and out. You got this/
Jazzlike_Leader8755 t1_j9f33m2 wrote
A breakup of this magnitude is akin to the grief of losing a spouse. That’s not a hot take to share with friends but it is one to share with yourself in terms of the level of empathy and grace you give yourself. This shit is hard and that’s ok. There would be something wrong with you if it wasn’t hard.
As for what you can do, build the future. That’s the way through this. Space for grief and then space for healing. This just happened. You’re not ready to build anything new yet. You’ll know when you are.
Focus right now should be getting through it and self care for you and parenting for your son. Do not skip self care right now. You need it more than ever and so does your child. You got this. ❤️
Jazzlike_Leader8755 t1_j91xtkb wrote
Reply to [Text] I’m very happy, so I have no goals?! by Mooberry_
It’s great to have gratitude. But the fact that you’re posting this means there’s something missing. Purpose is everything. To some people that’s being a parent. To others that’s volunteering. To others that’s building a business.
Doing something to help society will be one of the most meaningful things you can do. What that looks like looks different to everyone but go find yours. If you don’t know where to start try volunteering at a soup kitchen or mentoring someone junior.
Jazzlike_Leader8755 t1_j62khys wrote
Reply to comment by Remarkable-Camp8577 in What characteristics about you has seen the most change over the years? [Discussion] by TreatThompson
For sure but have you noticed that work culture has shifted earlier in the day for everyone so it’s more and more difficult to commute
Jazzlike_Leader8755 t1_j5yi16z wrote
Reply to comment by Remarkable-Camp8577 in What characteristics about you has seen the most change over the years? [Discussion] by TreatThompson
Similar to you it sounds.
Jazzlike_Leader8755 t1_j5yewqi wrote
Reply to comment by Remarkable-Camp8577 in What characteristics about you has seen the most change over the years? [Discussion] by TreatThompson
Same but I’m not happy about it. Feels like my job is getting the best of me rather than the people I love.
Jazzlike_Leader8755 t1_j5yem1d wrote
Dude I’m sure you have your reasons as to why you’re not keeping your wife’s schedule but I bet they’re not good ones. Try to get on the same schedule as her. Your marriage will thank you and you’ll be happier.
Jazzlike_Leader8755 t1_jaba1oj wrote
Reply to Going to the gym was fun for a month. [Discussion] by SunKissed_ox
Discipline is a chore. That’s kind of the conversation you have to have with yourself and it’s sucks. But you have to love your future self enough to have that discipline.