Don't compromise on what you want, if you want a monogamous relationship, look for someone who gives that :)

Someone who leaves his gf of 15 years, who he still he loves for a girl he only recently met....and then wants both. This sounds like an asshole who wants to just have sex with multiple people to me, sorry :)

You were a girl, then you were sure you were a boy and now a girl again? This post plus your previous post really show you have some mental health problems you need to work out. Find yourself first and do not be taken advantage off by a 32yo creep

Get professional help, mate