IllVast4743
IllVast4743 t1_j6nxwnt wrote
Reply to (43m)(34f) by ThrowraImportant_
Man brother she has you on lock. Try and find your backbone and take back some control. She is never going to really be back with you , if you are a weakling. You are playing the pick me dance, kissing her butt. Stop that! It never works, it only serves to reinforce her opinion that you are spineless and will be waiting around to take her when she is done torturing you. Find your spine again and move on already.
IllVast4743 t1_j6numg5 wrote
Reply to comment by biopticstream in Fiancee 28F lied to me 26M about very specific details of an evening while out of town recently (we have 1yr old daughter) by Mean-Slice-6217
This guy 👆🏻sounds incredibly naive
IllVast4743 t1_j6nuexb wrote
Reply to Fiancee 28F lied to me 26M about very specific details of an evening while out of town recently (we have 1yr old daughter) by Mean-Slice-6217
Sounds like It’s time to stop being that passive boyfriend and find your backbone. She should have just been downgraded back to just gf. She clearly does. Not respect you at all. You are going to have some self respect and lay down some boundaries in your relationship.
IllVast4743 t1_j6l6eve wrote
Reply to I [30M] found lingerie I’ve never seen before in my wife’s [24F] work bag. by [deleted]
You can’t be this clueless, grow a backbone already. Of course she is cheating. There is no other explanation. Now find your spine and kick that garbage to the curb.
IllVast4743 t1_j2c2zrz wrote
Reply to [22M] [21F] My girlfriend cheated on me with a coworker, it’s a little messy. by throwRA196429
Wow you can’t be this pathetic. Dude grow a backbone, your girl is actively cheating on you. You are being the perfect little weak beta and making justifications for her betraying you. Find your spine already, she is trash. Move on and ghost her. Get some self esteem already.
IllVast4743 t1_iyf8js5 wrote
Ok so you are worthless, and you want our help with a mess you not only made once, but twice? No thanks you trash and deserve what cokes your way.
IllVast4743 t1_iycmavp wrote
Reply to Thoughts on a man sending crying selfies when you want to leave him? by Big-Entertainer6424
He is not a man then, go find a real man.
IllVast4743 t1_iuix0ni wrote
She is actively interviewing for your replacement. Better reign this in.
IllVast4743 t1_iuiwt76 wrote
You are either a weak wuss or just terribly naive. Lay down some boundaries before this turns physical. Grow a spine
IllVast4743 t1_jeefre8 wrote
Reply to My (25M) girlfriend (24F) jokes about previous sexual encounters which make me feel disrespected by [deleted]
Lmao you need to find your backbone. Your girl is another woke moron. Leave