Mmm kinda YTA. She probably has her reasons on why she doesn’t want to turn and that’s okay. The process of turning into a vampire, let alone the changes in your body, can be very devastating and can almost be critical if their body doesn’t handle it well. I had this same talk with my husband (and a very deep one too about this) before finally turning him. And let me tell you this, he was bedridden for weeks on end after our wedding.
The poor thing was feverish and in constant pain before feeling that constant hunger that couldn’t be satiated. (Good thing for the extra blood packs). The pain got bad to where he legit was sobbing. Not only that, he was now considered “dead” as the humans would dub us, so he couldn’t really use pain killers.
Plus it’s rude to push our tradition onto other who are really accustomed to our tradition. Especially mortals. Had to learn that myself too, don’t worry.
You also are just following tradition on which she also does not understand, but the thing is this is the 21st century now. Not the 18th century. A lot of things have changed now. But i really do hope you and your soon-to-be-wife talk through this and discuss about it!
HopefulMarzipan9163 t1_iy9ugq4 wrote
Reply to [WP] As a vampire, I follow traditions. My fiancé is human and just found out that human brides/grooms are to be bit to become a vampire themselves. She absolutely refuses to let that happen, and says the wedding is off unless I refuse to bite her. I feel like she's disrespecting tradition. AITA? by Crystal1501
Mmm kinda YTA. She probably has her reasons on why she doesn’t want to turn and that’s okay. The process of turning into a vampire, let alone the changes in your body, can be very devastating and can almost be critical if their body doesn’t handle it well. I had this same talk with my husband (and a very deep one too about this) before finally turning him. And let me tell you this, he was bedridden for weeks on end after our wedding.
The poor thing was feverish and in constant pain before feeling that constant hunger that couldn’t be satiated. (Good thing for the extra blood packs). The pain got bad to where he legit was sobbing. Not only that, he was now considered “dead” as the humans would dub us, so he couldn’t really use pain killers.
Plus it’s rude to push our tradition onto other who are really accustomed to our tradition. Especially mortals. Had to learn that myself too, don’t worry.
You also are just following tradition on which she also does not understand, but the thing is this is the 21st century now. Not the 18th century. A lot of things have changed now. But i really do hope you and your soon-to-be-wife talk through this and discuss about it!