Honestly, yea while you did fuck up the fact she was jealous and gave you the silent treatment is a red flag partners need to talk. From the sound of it if it wasn’t this incident something else would of popped up, and your wife would of done the same thing.

Naw, always pay attention to your partner’s family as birds of a feather flock together. Besides looks like you dodge a bullet when this hen flew the chicken coop..