I wonder if he could have a bit of caregiver burnout? If he was good a few years ago, maybe he's running on empty.
It could be worth a conversation about how he is supported to support you - does he have a good network? Could you get a cleaner so he isn't picking up so much housework if you're not able to do things? Do you have friends or family who might be able to do some of the things he currently does to help you/your household?
GlitzToyEternal t1_jac92jr wrote
Reply to comment by o0Ambrosia0o in Me (28f) can't keep living with my Husband (29m) like this anymore. by [deleted]
I wonder if he could have a bit of caregiver burnout? If he was good a few years ago, maybe he's running on empty.
It could be worth a conversation about how he is supported to support you - does he have a good network? Could you get a cleaner so he isn't picking up so much housework if you're not able to do things? Do you have friends or family who might be able to do some of the things he currently does to help you/your household?