Gamboleer t1_iy1a8s4 wrote on November 27, 2022 at 11:59 PM Reply to LPT: Instead of telling a self-conscious person that no one is ever negatively judging them, agree with them that people probably are thinking mean things about them. But tell them those people are jerks. Jerks aren't worth worrying over. by autotelica I don't agree with your title, as it's a narcissistic way of thinking that isn't healthy. However, the body of your post seems a reasonable, rational balance. Permalink 2
Gamboleer t1_iy1a8s4 wrote
Reply to LPT: Instead of telling a self-conscious person that no one is ever negatively judging them, agree with them that people probably are thinking mean things about them. But tell them those people are jerks. Jerks aren't worth worrying over. by autotelica
I don't agree with your title, as it's a narcissistic way of thinking that isn't healthy. However, the body of your post seems a reasonable, rational balance.