It is not crossing a line to tell his parents that their son is a deadbeat. They probably already know that.
As for advice, if you're really insane, learn linux system administration and virtualization. It's not easy by any stretch, but linux and it's virtualization tools are free and the virtualization skills are transferable.
Gajatu t1_ja473bx wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in LPT REQUEST: Not sure if this is the right place to post…I am expecting and will be a single mother as the father doesn’t want to be in the picture. by [deleted]
It is not crossing a line to tell his parents that their son is a deadbeat. They probably already know that.
As for advice, if you're really insane, learn linux system administration and virtualization. It's not easy by any stretch, but linux and it's virtualization tools are free and the virtualization skills are transferable.