You’re a 23 year old adult and your conclusion was ‘he’s lazy’, do you not understand how bad that sounds? Where’s the caring from your side? Where’s the talking to him and asking him questions instead of just going off on him?‘Depression didn’t seem plausible’? There is SO much information available online that you could have looked at.

Of course you’re not getting emotional support from him, he can’t even take care of his own atm!

You either start shaping up to be the support he needs or go, although your last sentence suggests that you’re not willing to do the former.

Wow, you honestly come across as an uncaring monster throwing a fit cos you can’t get what you want instead of trying to help someone who more than likely has depression.

He needs professional help and some caring people around him. If you can’t be that, then it’s better you leave sooner rather than later, so he doesn’t spiral more.

My response may come across harsh but I’ve been in his position and it took me a long time to get better due to the toxicity