Walmart? Quite a way to travel for sheets and cleaning supplies, lol

Yeah that's what I meant when I said I don't want to be rude. Thanks for the example of how not to do it

Fun fact this guy was my high school crush, don't plan on marrying him though

Think you're looking into this all a bit too deeply man, maybe taking it a little personal

Oh sorry, that was a weird typo. I Meant to say, 'I Definitely want to avoid his place' not 'avoid him'. I Don't want to avoid him, I still like him

>Next time you agree to get together, you can say 'so I can come to your place but like, YOu've been to my place, you see what my apartment is like, I like a made bed, with sheets on it...I mean, girls like neat and tidy, you know? (laugh)

Funny thing is I kinda tried this already, before I'd even seen his place. The other night we were chatting online and he said, 'Well if you're coming I better tidy up a bit, I've let the place get kinda messy'. (Or words along those lines) Now I have before encountered men like him who are blind to mess and don't clean up properly, and I wanted to make sure he knew my expectations to avoid this very situation. So I half-jokingly said, 'Yeah you better had, I like a clean space lol' just to drop the hint in case he needed it. Didn't work though evidently. So yeah, at this point I think if I'm gonna say anything I need to be direct, hints don't work

What?

Like I said, it might open his eyes to it, so he won't have the same problem when bringing girls, or even just friends, home in the future

If everyone's too polite to say anything, he'll end up 35 y/o wondering why he's never got passed the talking phase

This is kind of what I was thinking. Like, don't tell him unsolicited, but if he asks me what we don't go to his anymore I'll answer his question honestly (But tactfully)

I Mean fair enough, but the thing is I do want to continue seeing him, so that's what I want advice on