DextersApprentice
DextersApprentice t1_isswtwx wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in More Same-Sex Couples Eligible for Survivor Benefits After VA Policy Change by EssoEssex
I'm not going to downvote you for saying you don't agree with our "choice" because I at least appreciate the sentiment that we deserve equality in your eyes. However, as a trans man who previously identified as a lesbian, I can say 100% not a single choice was made here. I was, as they say, born this way and so was everyone else in the LGBTQ+ community. I'm not going to downvote you but I'm here to simply say that your acceptance from a legal standpoint while you publicly argue that being gay is a choice, is not enough. If you're already in the mindset that we are "equal" or at least deserving of equality then I think we should also be deserving of your understanding.
DextersApprentice t1_isv2k2g wrote
Reply to TIFU by walking away from a friend vomiting by [deleted]
Off-topic but you guys march french horns? Ours always marched mellos instead because of the bell direction and they don't waver in tone as much while moving around. Marching with a French horn sounds hard.