DebbieDunnbbar
DebbieDunnbbar OP t1_ir9izcq wrote
Reply to comment by _ism_ in Is it possible, under the table, to enroll someone else's child in school? And other bizarre questions about the absolutely infuriating situation I have stumbled into. by DebbieDunnbbar
We felt a little awkward about it, but my wife actually got her on the birth control shot when we started letting her stay over because we knew her parents wouldn’t (they wouldn’t even take her to the ER when she had an appendicitis scare a couple months ago). Not ready to be a grandparent just yet.
DebbieDunnbbar OP t1_ir9du9e wrote
DebbieDunnbbar OP t1_ir91sdn wrote
Reply to comment by thearticulategrunt in Is it possible, under the table, to enroll someone else's child in school? And other bizarre questions about the absolutely infuriating situation I have stumbled into. by DebbieDunnbbar
You’re right, it looks like she meets the technical definition of homeless according to this. This is great. Thank you!
DebbieDunnbbar OP t1_ir91gn5 wrote
Reply to comment by Aimless78 in Is it possible, under the table, to enroll someone else's child in school? And other bizarre questions about the absolutely infuriating situation I have stumbled into. by DebbieDunnbbar
I mean, would they consider her that? They know she lives with her father and stepmother in a motel five days a week because we told them. She’s only at our house on the weekend.
DebbieDunnbbar OP t1_ir914bv wrote
Reply to comment by Pyxeeluv in Is it possible, under the table, to enroll someone else's child in school? And other bizarre questions about the absolutely infuriating situation I have stumbled into. by DebbieDunnbbar
It’s worth a shot anyway. She does have her birth certificate and social security card (we helped her get copies of them a while back, can’t remember why, her parents couldn’t be bothered with that either).
On that homeless thing, I didn’t even think about a different school. We may be fucked on that one school we were talking to, but if she’s “homeless” we could enroll her in one of the Springfield ones as long as she can do it online. That could work!
DebbieDunnbbar OP t1_ir90sa5 wrote
DebbieDunnbbar OP t1_ir8z4j9 wrote
Reply to comment by Pyxeeluv in Is it possible, under the table, to enroll someone else's child in school? And other bizarre questions about the absolutely infuriating situation I have stumbled into. by DebbieDunnbbar
If they’ve got to be present with the notary, I don’t have much hope on that. This piece of shit wouldn’t even let us drive him to a five minute interview so his daughter could go to the first and only dance she’s ever been to. These people are scum.
DebbieDunnbbar OP t1_ir8yzbb wrote
Reply to comment by Aimless78 in Is it possible, under the table, to enroll someone else's child in school? And other bizarre questions about the absolutely infuriating situation I have stumbled into. by DebbieDunnbbar
I didn’t realize that was a thing, but it makes sense. I may be fucked on that, though. We’ve had extensive conversations with the school staff trying to work this out, so they’d have to be willing to feign ignorance because they know she’s not homeless.
DebbieDunnbbar OP t1_ir8yspu wrote
Reply to comment by Crazybritzombie in Is it possible, under the table, to enroll someone else's child in school? And other bizarre questions about the absolutely infuriating situation I have stumbled into. by DebbieDunnbbar
I’ll crosspost it there. If it requires cooperation, I doubt they’d do the guardianship thing willingly, though.
DebbieDunnbbar OP t1_ir9m46z wrote
Reply to comment by _ism_ in Is it possible, under the table, to enroll someone else's child in school? And other bizarre questions about the absolutely infuriating situation I have stumbled into. by DebbieDunnbbar
She’s had a little trouble with the shot too. Maybe we should’ve suggested an IUD. We did kind of steer her away from pills and toward the shot. My wife and I were both paranoid about the pills because we both remember teenage girls in high school who were on them and ended up pregnant anyway (I guess from missing some or whatever).