K you tried communicating and it didn’t work. Time to reconsider if this is what you want. Don’t think “if only (insert bad behavior) changed, I’d be happy…” In the dating game, you work with what you have in the moment. Could you be happy in a commitment with him assuming he stays exactly the same for the rest of your life? Depending on how you answer that question, you will know whether to stay or go

Yeah I second your stance

Based on the text of this post, nobody is going to know if he’s cheating or not. You don’t know enough so we don’t know enough.

What seems to be clear based off of the text of your post though, is that you don’t seem to mesh well. It seems like his behavior isn’t ideal for your needs. Maybe try communicating with him to try to establish a healthier dynamic. If that doesn’t work. Reconsider if this is what you want.

Cheating is far from the only viable reason for a breakup