BuddyBear17
BuddyBear17 t1_j89b0ze wrote
Reply to Maintain the integrity of our town! Preserve Freeport’s charming and historic parking lots! by bitesandcats
LD 2003 is gonna hit these people like a ton of bricks when they see the amount of density that'll be possible downtown.
BuddyBear17 t1_j69hs9t wrote
Reply to comment by hike_me in Quality of life Map, by state. by Floperator1492
Easier access the Boston metro and its multi billion dollar economy, thus better wages and earnings potential.
BuddyBear17 t1_j226p20 wrote
Reply to Please drive SLOW in the snow by WhaleDinosaurDog
There's something in this state that I call snow-machismo, when certain individuals, usually men, need to prove their driving badassery in winter weather by driving way over a reasonable speed for the conditions. Correlates highly with jeeps, lifted trucks, and loud Subarus FWIW.
BuddyBear17 t1_iziuhd1 wrote
Reply to comment by dedoubt in Please Bring the Amtrak To Bangor by PhiloBlackCardinal
With climate migration, that population density will come, but it's still a generation away.
BuddyBear17 t1_iziue5h wrote
Reply to comment by Ironbird207 in Please Bring the Amtrak To Bangor by PhiloBlackCardinal
You need rezonings to allow additional residential construction so that the potential ridership is higher. But for that to even matter, there needs to be at least some market pressure for more residences there due to good job opportunities, which there really aren't in Bangor's moribund local economy. But jobs, housing, ridership, and new rail service is the order of operations.
BuddyBear17 t1_izir3sh wrote
Reply to comment by PlentyCommission166 in Hey Penobscot, two of your senators skipped work and couldn't vote for the bill to approve heating assistance today. It failed by 3 votes. by victorspoilz
They're all part time, have no staff, and make shit money for the work involved, for what it's worth.
BuddyBear17 t1_ixm3m7q wrote
2024 delivery sounds like they consider the entitlements process to be achievable despite the usual hysterics from abutters. Still, Katniss hand symbol
BuddyBear17 t1_ixm378o wrote
Reply to comment by AssumptionLivid6879 in New Housing Developments Planned for Kittery, Brunswick by MrsBeansAppleSnaps
"people from away"
BuddyBear17 t1_ixm2r9p wrote
Reply to comment by DifferenceMore5431 in Walmart Maine strikes again by Jadasmom
Yeah this is a site plan review failure by the city. Guarantee that there's some city standard for parking lot design that isn't met by this, it's a safety/fire access hazard. Last thing you need is some ambulance hitting it at night.
BuddyBear17 t1_iwv4bmc wrote
Reply to comment by onewordpoet in I went to Astor Place on the last warm day we had to do some painting. This is what I ended up with! by onewordpoet
Maine, after having a kid and wanting to be closer to his grandparents, who retired up this way. Left a sweet City job and pension behind to do it, but it has made daily life easier (if markedly less exciting/interesting).
BuddyBear17 t1_iwuiayt wrote
Reply to I went to Astor Place on the last warm day we had to do some painting. This is what I ended up with! by onewordpoet
As someone that once lived a short walk from here and moved away a while back, this is beautiful.
BuddyBear17 t1_iwuflqb wrote
Reply to comment by pinnaclehv in Jewish Networking? by Ok-Attorney3898
If only we could get a Liebman's Deli up this way, preferably run by actual Jewish folks and not Matty from Ska'bro.
BuddyBear17 t1_ityzyxl wrote
Reply to Anyone work for BerryDunn? by uninspired-v2
I have a friend that is a Senior Consultant there. She seems to like it enough, although she frequently logs in on evenings and weekends (and has a small child too, so not ideal). Curious why you'd choose them and not just work remotely or hybrid for Deloitte, Accenture, etc. where the pay scale is way better.
BuddyBear17 t1_irpwkwj wrote
Reply to comment by IamSauerKraut in Going from HS Teaching to working a B.I.W.? by Character_Stable_487
You don't need to work at FAANG to be gainfully employed in the tech sector. Or even be able to code for that matter.
BuddyBear17 t1_irolivm wrote
Why on earth would you seek out backbreaking labor when you could learn a few programming languages via a boot camp, get some certs, build a few projects in GitHub, and make $80k a year?
BuddyBear17 OP t1_iqt7pui wrote
Reply to comment by Bywater in What is up with all the resting bitch face? by BuddyBear17
This is where we part ways culturally, I think. But I do know a few ethnic Russians and other eastern Europeans who are just like this, and the "nod" + stoic facial expressions/mannerisms must be a cold climate European stock thing.
BuddyBear17 OP t1_iqt6km9 wrote
Reply to comment by Just_Looking_Around8 in What is up with all the resting bitch face? by BuddyBear17
I've had enough interactions here to know that a decent number of white Mainers are uncomfortable around POC. So some of the time? Sure. The downvotes are a great way of telling who's who.
BuddyBear17 OP t1_iqstwax wrote
Reply to comment by iammabdaddy in What is up with all the resting bitch face? by BuddyBear17
It's seven months of the year here - maybe time for a winter activity/sport so you can stay engaged and have something to look forward to?
Actually - I think there's a whole lot of undiagnosed SAD in this state and region that kicks in for people around this time of year. A light box is literally life changing.
BuddyBear17 OP t1_iqsp7dd wrote
Reply to comment by Bywater in What is up with all the resting bitch face? by BuddyBear17
Is it fake? Or is it just a basic social nicety and lubricant that can make one's day just a tiny increment better and brighter?
BuddyBear17 OP t1_iqsfnmb wrote
Reply to comment by sinspirational in What is up with all the resting bitch face? by BuddyBear17
That is actually a super interesting and astute point on the tradition of cultural stocisim and how it manifests itself in daily interactions that I hadn't considered. Obviously it's not an exuberant and "talk with your hands" culture, but when you spend day in and day out around people who look just... vaguely unhappy, it can start to impact your own mood.
All of this predates COVID, inflation, etc so any attempt to pin it on that - no.
BuddyBear17 OP t1_iqsdgyo wrote
Reply to comment by logcabinfarmgirl in What is up with all the resting bitch face? by BuddyBear17
Yeah. It's totally possible that they've got a phobia of brown folks - wouldn't be the first time that it's happened in my years in this state. Maybe you're one of them?
BuddyBear17 t1_jeedvqg wrote
Reply to comment by FoxyRin420 in Are you new to northern Maine? Researchers from the University of New Hampshire want to hear from you! by UNH-Center-for-SPiP
No one's going to work remotely on shitty DSL or unreliable starlink, which is all you get on large swaths of rural Maine. Remote workers with $$ want access to actual amenities.