BromioKalen

BromioKalen t1_j9p9umu wrote

Unfortunately our proximity to the Holland Tunnel creates a lot of these issues. We have a lot of drivers who are in a hurry using Jersey City surface streets to rush towards the tunnel. They don't live here and have no regard for the community.

When you add the lack of enforcement of basic traffic laws like running stop signs and red lights, it's a perfect storm for chaos on our streets.

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BromioKalen t1_j85a9xb wrote

First of all welcome to JC. After 13 years of living here I have learned to walk defensively. Always expect someone is going to make a right turn into you while you are in the crosswalk, or just run a red light, or make a left to try to beat traffic without them noticing you. Don't walk with headphones on and always be scanning around you. It's just life here unfortunately. There is no traffic enforcement by the police and everyone that drives around here knows that and they do whatever the fuck they want. Even our city council people run over people here and get a slap on the wrist and stay in office.

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BromioKalen t1_j6yqv0w wrote

Not surprising. I am an account executive in New Jersey. Not saying what industry, but I will not bother quoting the city, or the schools, or anything NYC government related because of the red tape and how difficult they make it to secure a contract. I no bid. I have enough work at this time. Not surprising the people who do bid these projects mark them up incredibly to cover all the extra bullshit it takes to do business with the city.

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BromioKalen t1_j3buiyg wrote

Sometimes people connect with and befriend others who they share common experiences with. Growing up gay can be very difficult and many gay people like to socialize and build a network with their fellow gay brothers and sisters. Chosen family. To the OP, there are lots of family here in Jersey City. You should not have any problem.

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BromioKalen t1_j2uxwmp wrote

Reply to comment by i-am-a-name in Apartment move-in costs by i-am-a-name

Also, keep in mind that depending on what is going on with the rental market the broker fee can be negotiated. Not exactly with the broker, but with the landlord who hired the broker to list the property. If rentals start to be in less demand this year, possible to split the fee with the landlord or have them pay it fully if you are highly qualified. Right now, most tenants are paying the brokerage fee, but that changes due to market conditions.

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BromioKalen t1_j2uwp4d wrote

The max security deposit allowed by the state of NJ is 1.5 months so could be less. From my experience one month is more common. Also, you don't always need a broker, but if you are moving from out of state, I would recommend it to handle things for you.

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