hahah V5's are pretty tough in general. You didnt look too far off in your video.

What's the grade on this route?

You are very welcome. You're certainly not an idiot, you're just human.

Like everyone else here including yourself have said, it depends on the person. Just talk to him in a similar fashion to how you were honest with us here. Let him know its been a while for you so your timeline gauge may be a little skewed. I am not sure what ensued from the pettiness, but hopefully you guys can work through it.