Not to check on him, just to make him more comfortable and not alone. It may make him feel better/more comfortable if we are working on the relationship together vs just him getting therapy by himself. He has a super hard time with being vulnerable and I don’t want him to feel pressured by me telling him he needs to go to therapy.

This makes sense. I was just unsure on what would be better for us but my anxiety is definitely swaying that decision. Thank you.