Bishop51213

Bishop51213 t1_jdpxmfd wrote

Agh, Grayson. I don't want to think that he's bad, but he's sure skirting the edges of a LOT going on.

Also, while I would certainly (kindly) suggest you stand up for yourself better in certain situations, it would be ridiculous to suggest that you stand up to an inhuman thing when it's not necessary. That would be a bad situation to put yourself in. I'm on your side

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Bishop51213 t1_j9si6e3 wrote

You're doing well Ashley. You do need to work on blaming yourself WAY less for things that are out of your control, but you're also one of the rare kind of people who actually give a shit and want to be helpful and that's worth a LOT. Plus, you've already confronted some disgustingly awful things and come out on top, which is impressive.

Just thought you might need a reminder of that. You're doing well, and you are exceptional. Now please be safe. Relatively, anyway.

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Bishop51213 t1_ivnuouk wrote

I don't think it was specifically Cassie's anger or your fear, but I do think that you're basically right about the difference with the possums. I think you weren't assertive enough, didn't have the right body language. Also maybe yelling at them wouldn't hurt

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