Batwoman_2017

Batwoman_2017 t1_ja2g5o5 wrote

Doesn't make sense to get worked up over whether the child says mama or Dada first. It depends on what the child finds easier to say: https://www.care.com/c/do-babies-say-mama-or-dada-first/

It's not like the child will just talk to one parent for the rest of his/ her life.

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Batwoman_2017 t1_j9spdez wrote

Get a therapist. You don't have to worry about taking anti-anxiety meds unless you have a recurrent issue and your anxiety can be diagnosed as a disorder. Therapy will help you identify triggers and unhelpful habits.

Even reading books about anxiety can help - I found Dr Tracey Marks' "Why am I so Anxious?" Book pretty helpful.

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Batwoman_2017 t1_j4q046u wrote

I hate women in books where they're badly written. In books where they are well-written, they are compelling.

Both men and women writers can write women badly.

As a reader, our state of mind while reading a book is also influenced by life experience, so you may feel differently in a few years time.

Generally, there are very few authors whose work has touched me when it comes to women characters, so I can understand if your experience has been negative with such characters.

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