People have already listed most of the places I like, but Grasshopper in Allston should be on your list.

Your responses in this thread, even in reply to some really thoughtless comments, have been kind, empathic towards others, pragmatic, and demonstrative of a wonderfully positive and hopeful attitude. You seem like a really nice person. I wish you all the best, and I have no doubt that, with your outlook and thoughtful nature, you will find your way through this. Stay warm, and be well. A stranger on the internet is rooting for you.