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BansheeLoveTriangle t1_j2c2z12 wrote

Drivers seem to get annoyed when I stop before entering the crosswalk - but I literally trust no fucking drivers anymore. Narrowly avoiding getting hit on crosswalks with stop signs/red lights like every couple weeks now

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NicholasAakre t1_j2c779y wrote

A few weeks ago I was walking with my wife and we stopped to look both ways before crossing the intersection. A dude in some riced out Honda Civic is barreling down the street and definitely not gonna stop or slow down. It wasn't until about 15 feet before the stop sign that he slammed the brakes after noticing us. He sheepishly waved to try and signal "my bad".

We didn't start crossing until he came to a complete stop.

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Underscore_Guru t1_j2cfphq wrote

I legit death stare drivers when I see them coming up to a crosswalk. If they hit me, I want to make sure I see their face in case I need to ID them.

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All_the_Bees t1_j2chj8d wrote

I do the same thing, but my reason is that if you're going to hit me I want you to live with the knowledge that you were looking me in the eye when you did it.

(your reason is better, but I'm kind of face-blind)

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NaughtyGoddess t1_j2fszvw wrote

Yes, me too. Direct eye contact. I make them feel my eyes lol. It's the only way these days.

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BansheeLoveTriangle t1_j2c9gyb wrote

Saw some red piece of junked-up custom shit blow through at least two stop signs in a row tonight, was going in the same direction at least

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paulHarkonen t1_j2civwn wrote

There's probably a less racist way to describe that particular asshole/moron's car.

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JustHereForCookies17 t1_j2eesue wrote

A cursory Google search explains that "rice" is an acronym for "Race Inspired Cosmetic Enhancements", wherein Race is defined as a competitive motorsport rather than a demographic descriptor.

I didn't know where the term came from before I read your comment, hence my Google search. I was fully ready to strike the term from my vocabulary as I could absolutely see it having derogatory origins, just like the terms "peanut gallery" or "gypped".

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paulHarkonen t1_j2egvvw wrote

I have never heard the term applied to a vehicle made by western manufacturers. No one would call a modified mustang "riced out". The term originates from back in the 70's when cars from Asian (mostly Japanese) manufacturers were derogatorily referred to as "rice burners".

Urban dictionary (and a few others) suggests that the acronym was developed after the fact by people uncomfortable with the racist origins of the term looking to justify it's continued use. At least there seems to be some awareness of how racist the term is/was but we can do better than coming up with an excuse and just use different words to describe "a car heavily modified with stupid cosmetics that look fancy but provide no performance benefits".

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JustHereForCookies17 t1_j2en0ts wrote

Totally fair. I've heard people use it to describe Mustangs, Camaros, and even BMW's, but that's obviously anecdotal on my part. Also, that was back in the mid-2000's, so I can absolutely see how the term may have been retconned in an attempt to cover-up its racist roots.

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random_generation t1_j2ecrbd wrote

Not sure why you’ve received the downvotes, especially in a sub that’s usually a little bit more in-tune with checking themselves for that kind of language.

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paulHarkonen t1_j2ehcku wrote

Because it sounds like I'm vaguely defending the moron in the car and this sub currently has an absolute hatred of anyone in a car (with some justification). The only acceptable response is to vocally attack anyone driving a car and mine didn't do that.

It's also because the term is so widely used that I suspect a lot of people don't realize it has racist origins.

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temporarytuna t1_j2dmbo9 wrote

You're making the right decision. 3 months ago I entered a crosswalk because I saw a vehicle slowing down as it approached a stop sign. Did it stop? No. It rolled through and hit me, and the impact broke my ankle.

I was very lucky that nothing worse happened, but only as of this week I'm starting to walk again after surgery and with physical therapy. Just like you, I will never assume a car is going to stop again.

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Ry90Ry t1_j2desvi wrote

Right, whether walking or driving I assume others will literally do the dumbest/most reckless thing I can imagine and play defense lol

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dc_dobbz t1_j2ee1i1 wrote

Even if a driver in one lane stops for me, I still wait for the inevitable impatient jackov that tries to go around them at speed.

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BansheeLoveTriangle t1_j2efeso wrote

I've seen a couple times recently someone stopping for me while turning left - then someone will pass them on the right and attempt to make a left turn - wild shit

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Classic-Ad684 t1_j2cabh1 wrote

I work near Union Station and it’s really bad there. There’s been more than a few times I was almost tagged. Because I also drive to work on occasion, I am respectful of pedestrians but there are more times than not that pedestrians are not respectful of motorists. Those asses that run stop signs and stoplights need to be heavily fined or jailed especially if they do it more than once.

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e30eric t1_j2dn7mz wrote

> I am respectful of pedestrians but there are more times than not that pedestrians are not respectful of motorists.

Oh boo hoo. When's the last time a person was killed by a travelling pedestrian?

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