We have a farm that borders a neighborhood. About 150 acres are posted but we readily give hunting permission. About 50 acres are not posted because they abut a neighborhood and it seems so very unneighborly to have those yellow signs facing peoples homes. We've always been very generous with use of the land but the attitude of people has really changed. 50 years ago, everyone asked for permission and were very respectful of only using the parts of the property that we okayed (essentially hugging the tree line and not crossing through our yard). They were extraordinarily gracious in offering to help bring in the hay, maintain trails, bringing my grandparents Christmas cookies, etc. Now, no one asks permission and people, literally, cross country ski so close to my house that they can see in the windows.
When people *do* ask for permission, I'm always happy to say yes! When they don't ask, it makes me want to spit nails. I've confronted a few of the more egregious privacy invaders and have had some whoppers of responses: "I have permission from your grandfather!" (he died 35 years ago--I think that permission slip expired), "I'm not doing any harm and my dogs are friendly" (ummm, your dogs may be friendly but you don't know if mine are AND this is not an off-leash dog park. Who do you think picks up the poop???), "I only cut the fence so that I wouldn't scratch my skis on the wires" (I mean, come on. How do you even respond to someone rationalizing CUTTING your electric cow fence???), etc etc etc
Why do people feel entitled to use what isn't theirs? Is it so hard to just be polite and ask permission? It's not like it's a big secret who owns the land.
contrary-contrarian t1_j20plkp wrote
Sorry people are abusing the fact you open your land up. It is amazing that you do so and I hope a few sour apples don't spoil the bunch.
It could be helpful to see if there is a municipal recreation committee or a local trail organization that could help you communicate your needs to the public.
Many folks are simply ignorant of whose land they are on and how best to use it. With a little Help and communication they could be educated about when and where they can use the land. These organizations might also help you put up signage explaining when and where to recreate if that's something you'd be interested in.
I want to reiterate that opening your land up is a tremendous service to the community. I'm sure there are many people who use it respectfully and certainly don't mean you harm or annoyance.
Hopefully you can come to a reasonable solution! Best of luck