Jaynie_ t1_ivyhlx0 wrote on November 11, 2022 at 3:39 PM

Reply to comment by numetalbeatsjazz in Vermont ranked 2nd most stressed state in the country: New study reveals by Carolff1

thanks for clarifying that you're not invalidating my feelings. My experience and feelings are real. I'm not getting into all the details but there are details. I'm not friendless and alone, but I am queer and forming a very small community has taken many years and even still, we all want more people to add into the community. It can happen but as a single mom working 50 hours a week, its also not really feasible for me to lead the program of making it happen.

burke_no_sleeps t1_ivymb70 wrote on November 11, 2022 at 4:11 PM

Oof I hear you on that one. Queer small town life is hard enough - add parenting on top of it and socialization seems like a faraway dream.

I'm glad you have a small community, and as your kids get bigger you'll be able to find more time for yourself! You'll get there, even in a tiny town.

I recommend the site "meetme" for finding get-togethers, online or in person, so you can meet new people. I started using it during the pandemic to fend off isolation and I've met a couple of cool folks. Good luck! Be patient!