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Puzzleheaded_Luck885 t1_j1zanq5 wrote

Reply to comment by Kadianye in TIL that on average women live five years longer than men, and that by age 85 around 67% of the population is female in the US. by Successful-Depth-235

Honestly, it's not all that great.

I left the red light feeling more sad and disappointed than I went in.

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master_a_skywalker69 t1_j20js8b wrote

This is the reason why I don’t hire a sex worker.

The pros: Get laid.

Cons: Cost. Reminder of how lonely and pathetic I am.

Right now the cons outweigh the pros but if money ever stops being an issue I’ll do it in a heart beat.

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Puzzleheaded_Luck885 t1_j20un7k wrote

Facts, you get laid, but you remember she doesn't give a shit about you either, and you're literally paying money to feel some sense of affection

It breaks my heart as I trudge home, feeling absolutely worthless

It's basically the same as not having sex at all: nobody wants you, you're alone, and you're sad.

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master_a_skywalker69 t1_j20vcur wrote

I mean there’s nothing wrong with meaningless sex but it’s kinda bummer that youre paying for it. Some people want love and some people want some ass and it feels bad that no one wants either from you 🥲

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Puzzleheaded_Luck885 t1_j20wcvs wrote

Well, if you're having meaningless sex with someone you picked up, at least you know she was in to you! Plus, there's always some level of intimacy.

From prostitutes there's no intimacy, and they weren't in to you.

I went a few times but I don't generally go because it just sucks

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master_a_skywalker69 t1_j20wnbr wrote

Yeah exactly my point.

I’ve heard people say that professionals can be …err good at what they do…and that can include being a good conversationalist and overall lead to positive human interaction that transcends sex, but the transactional nature of it ruins it for sure.

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Kadianye t1_j1zuw5c wrote

People place far too much value and power on virginity, fuck purity culture

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idevcg t1_j20f61a wrote

It's the other way around. People today are too morally degenerate and don't know what's right and wrong and just follows their instinctual desires like an animal.

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