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HopOnTheHype t1_j5xmmk4 wrote

Reply to comment by ExoticButters79 in TIFU My fiance[38m] posting on reddit and getting destroyed made me [28f] realize I’ve been with a psychopath by marriedtoapsychopath

Concept of story: They agreed to polyamory, she was discreet with it to keep him from getting insecure, he got insecure and small dick about it anyway, hired an escort to abuser style manipulate her like a sociopath, she felt uncomfy about how he was parading the girl in front of her, fell for the abuser manipulation tactics, had an emotional argument, and then agreed to monogamy.

That's what happened.

You're defending this

You're defending this because you relate more to the abuser than the victim, you're an insecure guy who thinks he got his revenge or something, you're incel asf.

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ExoticButters79 t1_j5zxa4q wrote

To call her a victim is a gross overreach. Stop pretending everyone is a victim

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HopOnTheHype t1_j60nggn wrote

Guy broke the boundaries of their polyamory, guy hired an escort to manipulate her like an abuser

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ExoticButters79 t1_j60oe85 wrote

Sounds like you need to mature a little. It yoursepf

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HopOnTheHype t1_j60r2vo wrote

I need to mature because I think it’s manipulative and abusive to hire an escort with the sheer purpose of my one’s partner jealous? That’s like textbook manipulation, you’re defending it cuz you are an abuser too tbh

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ExoticButters79 t1_j60sokf wrote

Lmfao no kiddo. I'm not even defending what either of them did. In my original response to this I called them both out for what they are and have done. I am simply pointing out your overreaction. Which is exactly what you are doing. You are a career victim. Stop finding victims hood in everything.

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HopOnTheHype t1_j60t5qk wrote

Honestly at this point you’re just defending narcissistic manipulation by an abuser and conflating it equally to her being uncomfy about him doing the polyamory openly in front of her, which is stupid. At this point he could beat her, And you’d conflate it to her being upset about it, and say she’s being a professional victim. You’re just sus lol

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ExoticButters79 t1_j60xtjb wrote

Just because you use big words doesn't make you smarter

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HopOnTheHype t1_j6103vm wrote

Holy shit, you’re just cry bullying me rn because you can’t argue against my point. Literally there is no way to justify his actions as anything but manipulation, which is abuse, you’re smelly for trying and failing to defend that

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