be aware that a whole lot of meds for depression will basically wave your libido byebye. I'm female, but being on anti-depressants killed my sex drive dead, and I was told oh yeah sorry that's normal, but you feel better right! No. No, I do not feel better now that I'm a totally frigid bitch thanks. I stopped taking the meds.

that was long ago, and now I'm aware that what I should have done was ask to try a different med and keep trying until we found one that didn't do that to me, but at the time my therapist genuinely did not give a shit and just kept telling me that's normal and not considering it a problem.