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autopsygas t1_j5ej51i wrote

You're not TAH exactly, but you're being a bit full on. Going over to say hello? Being mad he didn't tell you? Texting him maybe you shouldn't talk any more?

Youre clearly taking him seeing someone some kind of way, when honestly he doesn't owe you an explanation or introduction.

That being said, out of all the bars to go to he goes to yours? Very weird. I'm gonna go with ESH

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RecycledExistence t1_j5g86fb wrote

And yet he could have displayed the tiniest bit of social awareness and sensitivity by taking his date somewhere else, and chose not to. My take is that he wanted her to see him on a date (for whatever reason).

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BubblyBrookieCookie OP t1_j5f4wks wrote

I definitely feel too much about it, thank you for your honesty

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StopsToSmellRoses t1_j5iqdxv wrote

I think in the moment, it would be hard to know what to do. There’s a lot of pressure from being in a place where you know a lot of people and it’s a new situation that you weren’t aware of prior and none of there people you knew, knew about it either. I think maybe you wanted the others to know you were okay with it more than you wanted the ex to know. It could have been both, I’m not sure.

Definitely, like others have said, he wanted you know about it, but likely didn’t know how or didn’t want to tell you directly. Given this event, I don’t think he cares about you as much as you might think.

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