Submitted by Happylifenowife t3_10dovgw in tifu

Me and our ex are selling our house. We got a showing today and it was my time at the house. I swear I opened all the doors and checked the rooms. Cleaned up whatever messes I saw. I get my youngest daughter the dogs and head out. For context we have 3 kids. 11,7,5. The oldest almost always spends weekends and off school days with his grandmother. He's also my step son I raised since 10 months old. Other 2 girls are mine. 7yo was across the street with the neighbor. Me and the ex don't live in the house together we rotate out and the kids stay full time. I got here about an hour and a half before the showing. She left to see a house when I got here. We leave as the people showed up early so we rushed out the door. Me, daughter and 2 dogs. They were only 20 min in the house. I get back. Go to throw something away and see 2 poptart boxes. I thanked my 5yo for throwing away trash from the pantry. She denies it. I try explaining it was a good thing. She says she left them in there. So I'm now like well crap this agent is cleaning messes in the house. Then I hear thumping coming down the steps. Confused I see my boy pop around the corner. I ask when he got here. He says he's been here. I ask why he didn't come out when I had mentioned it to my daughter multiple times we had to leave for a showing. He said he was asleep. I asked why he was still asleep at noon and what time he went to bed. He argued he went to bed at 9 pm. I got his phone and looked at the screen time. Up till 1 am last night. I'm so embarrassed at this moment that I left a kid in the house. I can remember ever opening his door and if I did it was a quick open and close. I feel awful as a parent rn.

TL;DR 11yo boy got left behind during client walk though of hosue.

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Bigfops t1_j4mlesf wrote

I'm curious at what age it's OK to leave a kid home alone nowadays. I was home alone or with my brother every day after school starting when I was 9 years old. I realize this was a special case, but is 11 considered too young to be home alone?

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freecain t1_j4mmhqh wrote

8 is the legal age in my state, but home alone is different than home while you're not there and strangers are coming in the house.

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Bigfops t1_j4mq1al wrote

Yeah, I get that this was a different situation. I was just curious as I have no kids, but the parents I know seem not to let them out of their site for more than a few minutes. 8 seems like a reasonable age for a little while alone during the day.

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Happylifenowife OP t1_j4mmdo6 wrote

He's stayed home alone for short periods. Nothing more then a hour or 2. Him and my 7yo both have cell phones so there atleast in communication. My neighbor across the street normally watches the kids for us. She's retired so helpful for us. I do remember being 7 with my 11yo brother and 5 yo sister growing up. Tho.

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Capelily t1_j4mkda7 wrote

Don't worry, this was an innocent mistake. If I took all the times I realized I was being a not-so-stellar parent seriously, I'd be in a padded cell.

I'm in the same boat as you--selling my house--and I left some drying weed hanging in one of the closets for several of the showings.

Thought I checked everywhere, lol.

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Squigglepig52 t1_j4qjqzh wrote

Back in college, meter guy shows up for a reading, so I take him to where the meter is in the basement, where it was obscured by a curtain of drying plants.

We give each other a look, and then the phone rings. It's my roommate "Buddy! Meter guy is coming, you have to move the weed before he gets there!"

"Yeah, no - he's already down there, dude."

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