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Korgon213 t1_j6l22p8 wrote

Talk to him, then report back in 10 years after you’ve gotten married and had a few kids and are happy you married your best friend.

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[deleted] t1_j6lkgrr wrote

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MaximumSpinach t1_j6lx2bo wrote

This many downvotes suggest to me, the reddit boys here really believe these bad roms coms where THE GUY was here all along.

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Sinelas t1_j6m3n9o wrote

Because statistically, two thirds of romantic relationships start as long-term friendship.

Source : https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/19485506211026992

Of course everyone has a different story, but this many downvotes just show that acting like his own story is how it works for everyone is a mistake.

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yumirow t1_j6mknfl wrote

I'm sorry but there's no mention of long term. Meeting people through friends is very efficient, but I would argue that the more long term, the more display of affection are just emotional dump on the other person, and not interest.

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