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pseudo44 OP t1_j408974 wrote

Reply to comment by feelingodysseyreddit in TIFU by telling my friends what I think by pseudo44

Yeah in two years I'll go to university, but the major pain come from the fact that I already told them my story of bullism and I told them to just say to me if they didn't want to be my friends, I also told them that I was going to a psychologist for this and they did nothing, they didn't even talk to me

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feelingodysseyreddit t1_j418ozw wrote

I imagine they feel terrible for making you feel terrible, but they probably also don’t want to keep leading you on. It’s better for everyone now that you know where you stand and they can stop pretending. It’s actually very very hard to tell someone you don’t want to be friends with them, especially if you feel sorry for them. It’s time to draw a line and move on. You are worthy of people who are genuine friends so don’t waste any more energy or emotion on those people. Maybe there are clubs and classes you can do now that will occupy you, or look out for other people who are on the periphery of friendship groups, or who tend to be alone, and see if you can get to know each other. Good luck and believe in yourself as a worthy individual

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pseudo44 OP t1_j42scwo wrote

Thank you, I really appreciate what you are writing and I'll try doing that

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