Do you have a friend you can confide in? A teacher? You need out.

I told a teacher before about all the chores and work they make me do and she told me it’s life. All my friends know about it, but we’re kids lol, what can we do

Maybe they can tell their parents and help you

Chores, sure. But the mental abuse and physical abuse needs to be specified. Leave the chores out because most people will say “oh you don’t know how work is” but being slapped by your dad is awful and he needs to be reprimanded. If my child’s friend told me then I would take you in (and probably slap him while I’m at it)

This isn't a tifu, and none of it is your fault. It's abuse and you need to get out somehow. Stay safe.

The thing you call an FU in this post is you asking for McDonalds? Not everything else that is the actual FUBAR (and not by you)?

Idk I just think it was stupid for my to do the same shit over and over again and expect a different outcome. It was my fuck up to believe for once that they would get me fast food (I rarely get to eat out like once every 5-6 months)

I really hope you can leave once you reach 18. Have you thought about college or something like a nursing credential? I know that financial support is difficult to come by if you have a moderate income parent, but my god, you have to gain your independence. Do you live in low COL area where you could pay the rent with a low paying job? Around here, community college is pretty much free and has excellent certificate programs for things like welding, auto mechanics and nursing.

Good luck and hang in there.

You would think they'd be nicer to the person that selects the ingredients for their food.

😏😏😏 I have my tiny victories

When I’m 18 I plan to go to community college and get a part time job to help pay for it. I can’t get my father to help with the Fafsa because he don’t think women should have jobs or education. Only reason he allows me to go to school is because if he doesn’t it’ll become illegal.

You do need to have a different accommodation, I don't have it to offer right now.

Start a Go Bag or similar. Start collecting your important papers and anything else you think you’ll need at a moments notice.

I have a GTFO bag in case it becomes too much to bear

If what you're saying is true then you absolutely need the support of child protective services. Please don't think that any of this is your fault or that this is normal. It's not.

There are probably people in your area who can give you advice on how to get help. Either at your school (ask teachers who could be trustworthy) or figure out if there is some kind of place to go for victims of abuse. You shouldn't have to put up with this. Seriously.

If you do not leave now, you may not be alive by the time you are 18. Leave go to another town far away.

Wow. Fast food only twice a year? That’s ridiculous. You’re not asking for fogo de chow, it’s fast food, some of the cheapest food available.

>But I feel like my father resents me

If I was to be extremely, undeservedly charitable, I'd say he perhaps thinks you responsible for his wife's death and treats you accordingly (as irrational and unjustified as that is). Considering how misogynistic he is though, it's more likely he just resents that you can't fully replace the bangmaid he lost.

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>Yes I’ve considered running away, but, as much as I hate them, I don’t think I could actually stand being alone.

I'm not sure what your options are -- and I certainly wouldn't advocate being homeless -- but in my experience, it is far better to be alone than around people who make you wish you were. Stay safe.