strawberrybannas t1_j670nsj wrote on January 28, 2023 at 4:03 AM

I'm surprised no one has said anything but wow...that man is abusive af. Sure you fucked up and it was real shity to drive his car with no license. But all that aside, you let him talk to you like that? He sounds like he gaslights you so hard. I hope you can reflect and really take a good look at your relationship. Apologize for the license thing and then run.

Squigglepig52 t1_j68nu1i wrote on January 28, 2023 at 3:15 PM

"Sure, you lied, and ran the risk of getting charged for driving without a license, or having an accident that his insurance wouldn't cover, but him being upset about that was just so damn abusive!"

Dude was justified about being angry.

strawberrybannas t1_j6970pk wrote on January 28, 2023 at 5:29 PM

Never said he wasn't justified, dude. Just a terrible take away everyone got from the story. She definitely royally fucked up and hes got every right to be beyond pissed so shut up. But from what I've heard from this story he's got an 80% chance of being abusive. From personal experience these are the things I've heard abusive men say.