Accepting, i remember one job i had in a restaurant where i showed up and the owner make me clean out his brother's apartment who was a horder took me 4 days/shifts to do so. Then a few weeks after had to go to cemetery to help put in his brothers headstone.

That being said he was a amazing boss that would bend over backwards to help you out (tv broke on me and i metained it, he just gave me a huge tv for free that night)