whoamiforrealsie t1_j4mwzpu wrote
You deal with it by one of two ways:
- Break up with the person who believes what you want don’t matter when it’s opposite to what she wants- at this point, it’s abusive and not okay.
- Set your boundary one more time, and go to therapy. If this doesn’t work immediately, you leave.
She’s straight up telling you that she believes she is above you. If she thought you were her equal, she would’ve started using your new name immediately.
I hope this is the only red flag in her behaviors, but I highly doubt it. Do a serious, objective review of how she treats you.
I wish you the best. Stay safe!
here4mischief t1_j4ns8ms wrote
An interim could be that the gf doesn't get invited to interviews or industry parties but that might start to build resentment. "You can come by you have to call me by my industry name in public. Your choice"
whoamiforrealsie t1_j4nscdl wrote
Absolutely not. She’s already tried that. There’s no compromise here. Period.
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