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potatofairy42 t1_j4phmno wrote

Reply to comment by chaos021 in TIFU by hooking up with a guy on Grindr by Altruistic_Captain47

See, maybe it’s just me but if I’m on a dating app I don’t feel like I should need to question if the person is in a committed relationship. Cos, you know, they’re on a dating app. I’ve had a few people on apps ask me if I’m single and it’s always a red flag.

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sarcastic_boii t1_j4pqk68 wrote

how is it a red flag?? maybe they’ve just been in situations like op, and don’t want to be part of someone else’s cheating?? everything has to be a “red flag” nowadays…

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potatofairy42 t1_j4pr873 wrote

That’s a good point that they may have been there before, I genuinely didn’t think of that. Short sighted I know. I always took it as a sign that they think it’s ok to be on dating apps when you’re in a relationship.

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WulfTyger t1_j4sin08 wrote

It is- If you're in Polyamorous or ENM relationships. I'm committed to three people.

Yes, they are all aware of each other and have met, more than once.

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chaos021 t1_j4pre68 wrote

That makes no sense. If I'm even thinking about trying to get close to someone, I always asked if they're seeing someone. Asking shouldn't be a red flag. People who dodge the question or give you weird answers are a red flag.

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