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Falconflyer75 t1_j4own3z wrote

Honestly it’s on the other guy, you had every reason to assume he was single, as long as u didn’t knowingly hook up with someone in a relationship you’re almost as much a victim as his poor gf

Whom honestly you should track down and tell if U can

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WulfTyger t1_j4shp0w wrote

That's also if it's not a Poly or ENM relationship.

Shits tricky these days. I have 3 partners, one trans-man, two women.

I'm not actively dating at the moment, but when I am, I always start out saying that I'm poly with X partners. Never blindside somebody like OP was.

I feel for OP. This was most definitely NOT their fuck up. It was the other guy all the way.

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