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Bossanova87 t1_j5s5f4c wrote

People that play up the "I'm not mad" because they don't know how to communicate was my takeaway from this. Be with someone that speaks their mind.

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ididabadone OP t1_j5tvjkn wrote

the thing is, he really /wasn't/ mad. I assumed he was,but he wasn't. he told me to come to bed an hour later and we're fine now. he was just understandably upset and needed a little time to cool off/process. i have exes who would have reacted violently to that and who I would not have been honest with about this situation out of fear.

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Bossanova87 t1_j5u2972 wrote

Just seemed like another game people often play with trying to "play-up" anger to prove a point. I just see it all the time, and it gets old with me. Glad you guys are doing better. GL

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